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In Memory of Antonia Garay

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Antonia "Toñita" Garay
March 3, 1935 - August 28, 2006

Antonia Garay at 15 Years Old Antonia Garay was born in 1935 in Santa Isabel, Puerto Rico. She died the afternoon of Monday, August 28th, after a year-long battle with cancer. She was 71. Antonia was a woman of strong character that raised two children on her own. She left Puerto Rico for New York in her teens and became a seamstress and hair stylist. In her twenties, she became an apartment manager in Manhattan, a line of work that she would continue to do for most of her life.

She moved back to Puerto Rico in her thirties and eventually migrated to California in her mid-forties with her two children, managing apartment buildings in Southern California. Most recently, in her semi-retirement, she was a part-time permanent make-up artist in a beauty salon in San Francisco’s Mission District. She was charismatic, fun-loving, and dignified. She was described as unforgettable by all that knew her and touched many lives.

Antonia leaves behind loving sons Fabian Gonzalez and Adolfo Lopez; her grandchildren Derbis, Omar, and Adolfo Lopez, Jr.; her brothers Luis Garay, Alberto Delgado, and Felix Delgado, and her beloved nieces and nephews. Antonia is pre-deceased by her mother Josefina Santiago and her brother Oscar Delgado, of Tampa, Florida.

Friends and family are welcome to attend the viewing from 2pm to 9pm, with rosary service at 7pm, to be held on Thursday, August 31st at Driscoll’s Valencia Street Serra Mortuary, 1465 Valencia Street (at 26th Street), San Francisco, California 94110.

Back from Fort Worth

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I have returned from Fort Worth early due to my mom's deteriorating health. I will be meeting with her physician to discuss alternative chemotherapy treatments later today. No fun.

Life is Good

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Two good things happened yesterday: 1) my mom came home from the hospital, eight days after her surgery, and 2) I picked up an Xbox 360 on launch day. My mom is home and being cared for by my aunt, who is visiting from Puerto Rico, and her health is stable. Once she gains a little more strength, likely in a couple of weeks, she'll begin chemo. Thanks again to all that have kept her is their hearts and prayers.

The Xbox 360, what can I say, it is amazing! Even though I've only played it for a few hours I am very impressed with it. I am particularly excited about the High Definition resolution. The color and the detail in every game, particularly PGR3 is incredible. The backgrounds are so realistic that sometimes you crash from the distraction of neon lights, bridge scenery, and bystanders. People that say it is only a slight step up from the Xbox must not be playing the games in native 720p HD resolution. Once you go to HD you can't go back.

I am excited to play all of you all online on Xbox Live so please leave your Gamer Tags or send me a friend request on Live.

Surgery Day

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My mom is going into surgery today and will likely be in the hospital for the next week. Again, thank you all that have given me and my family much needed support during this difficult time. We ask you to please continue to keep her in your thoughts and prayers.

My Mom Has Cancer (Peritoneal Mesothelioma)

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A couple of days after we returned from Hawaii my mom went to the emergency room because she had a severe stomach ache and a swollen midsection. The emergency room doctor did a chest x-ray and a CT scan and found that my mom had what appeared to be stomach cancer. My mom has spent the last week going to see cancer specialists, oncologists, to determine the type of cancer and the stage. After a week of consultation, the doctors believe that my mom has primary peritoneal cancer (peritoneal mesothelioma).

Primary peritoneal cancer. Simply defined, it is cancer of the peritoneum. Peritoneum is the serous (fluid) membrane that lines the walls of the abdominal cavity. Because you can't remove the wall of your abdomen, the cancer cannot be removed surgically, though surgery for tumors it has created may be performed. The reason it's also referred to as extrovarian cancer (meaning ovarian cancer outside the ovary) is because it's basically of the same fluid that coats the ovaries and though it's not the exact same cancer, it is treated just as ovarian cancer. In fact, the pamphlets the doctors usually give out are ovarian cancer literature.

Like ovarian cancer, peritoneal cancer usually creates a tumor on the ovary or elswhere in the pelvic region. This tumor will create little pieces of what looks like chicken fat and spread them to other nearby organs. These are called metastasis lesions or adhesions, or "mets" for short. These mets are what my mom's CT scans have found. The treatment, usually surgery, chemotherapy or both depends on the grade and stage of the cancer tumor. My mom is scheduled to have surgery in the next few weeks, followed by chemotherapy.

At this point me and my family are simply hoping for the best. My deepest thanks to all of you that have us in your thoughts and prayers.

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